A Sensual Honeymoon Packing List from Donna D’Cruz
There are standard things to take on your honeymoon – from a swimsuit and sunscreen to lingerie – and then there are what I like to call ‘Packable Pleasures’, the unmentionables that you may want to bring with you but have no idea where to begin. Don’t fret – I’m here to guide you as you pack the ultimate honeymoon kit.
Since many couples today are healthily sexually intimate eons before the honeymoon trip even begins, the old-fashioned notion of a honeymoon trip no longer applies to the majority of honeymooners. The image of a tremulous, lip-quivering virgin bride relying on her husband's sexual experience to initiate her into an unknown land of forbidden pleasures is, thankfully, almost extinct. You can still find them in the pages of Fabio-covered romance novels, but such saccharine creatures have been ripped out of the pages of most modern-day love stories. They are distinctly unfamiliar to us gals who are more familiar with sexual abandonment (in a complete and utter throw-our-head-back kind of way) than sexual liberation. Not only do we know how to seduce a partner and how to engage in the dance of ecstasy, but we are also quite adept (thank you very much) in the realm of how to take ourselves fully there.
The realm of the romance novellas, even with all the goodwill narration in the world, sets an impossibly unrealistic standard of sexuality for women AND men. That said, the way we live now presents its own challenges with regard to the traditional honeymoon. By some irony, many women still harbor these unrealistic expectations and wouldn't dream of going on a date – let alone embark on their honeymoon – without their body and visage buffed, honed, toned, waxed, cool-sculpted and looking its absolute best. Men have joined us (and then some) and are finding out something that well-groomed women have always known – just how time-consuming physical up-keep and well-being can be. Welcome to manscaping, gentlemen!
So, let us surmise that – being the active, attractive, sexy couple you are - you have the Beginner, Intermediate and perhaps even Advanced sexuality and intimacy part down. Now, the delightful challenge is to build on that base of sexuality, add to its repertoire, explore the sensual joys and lusts of sex as a married couple and mix into that piquant sauce equal parts spirit, seduction and style.
There’s no better time to experiment and explore than during your honeymoon. Keep it fun, exciting, thrilling and spontaneous. Spirit, seduction and style combine for a heady, intoxicating mix filled with titillating opportunities to indulge in all facets of your personalities, both as individuals and as a couple. Honeymoons are all about relaxing and focusing on the two of you, making them just the time to fully unfurl your most wicked and fun fantasies together. Explore and indulge!